•Rapists On The Prowl
By Chioma Umeha
Timalayo, 12, hawks ‘pure water’ in Ajegunle, a
suburb of La
gos state. Timilayo was thoroughly beaten by her aunt the first day
she reported that a 57-year-old truck driver raped her.
The first reaction from her aunt was: “What were
you doing and discussing with him that he raped you? Your business is to sell
‘pure water,’ nothing more.
“Stop meddling with them and I don’t want to hear
this nonsense report again, Timi as fondly called by her peers told
Independent.”
Her aunt seriously warned that she will not pay
Timi’s lesson fee if she mention the matter again. This made Timi become
exposed to serial abuse at the popular Ajegunle motor park. By the time it was
discovered, serious harm has happened. As at the time of this report, Timi was
still on the hospital bed receiving treatment.
Her case is one out several rape incidents across
the country. Ada, a friend recently shared a post with me on Independent mail.
The post read: “I went for a shopping near a super
store close by the Federal Medical Center (FMC), Ebutte Metta Lagos. A huge
crowd who gathered outside the security post of the main gate of the hospital
were waiting to lynch or have a glimpse of this particular fellow which the
security held in their post at the gate.
The post further read: “On inquiry, one of the
staffs at the hospital, said: “They caught a man who raped a four-years-old
girl, her inner part and intestines is badly damaged and she is bleeding
profusely. Her life is in danger right now,’ ‘and to think her father’s brother
did it to her, It’s more painful. Many of the onlookers shaken by the news
couldn’t help a tear dropping from their eyes, he ought to be killed or
castrated,” the post read.
It also read: “We’ve had about nine cases of such
rape cases, in the past few days, but the worst is a six-month-old-girl child
who was always sexually abused by a neighbour friend who was always carrying
her, playing with her, hugging her and taking her to his room when she cries,
the baby was very fond of him. The baby’s mother was happy that she had someone
who liked her child not knowing that the man feeds the baby with his sperm.
“They just noticed the baby’s tummy was swelling
more than expected; she fell sick at some point before luck finally ran out on
him and he was caught. She was brought to the hospital and the doctors had to
extract the sperm and do a thorough job on her. A six-month-old baby! She
exclaimed on her post.
This and many more such cases are happening on
daily basis, some without documentation. These issues formed the agenda
recently, at a two day media dialogue on End Violence Against Children, (VAC)
in Ibadan, Oyo state.
Sylvanus Onogu, National Population Commission (NPoPC),
told Independent in an interview that there is a high prevalence of violence
against children in Nigeria.
Onogu said: “Before the age of 18 years,
approximately six out of every 10 children experience some form of violence.
One in two children experience physical violence; one in four girls and one in
ten boys experience sexual violence, while one in six girls and one in five
boys experience emotional violence.”
According to him, over half of children first
experienced physical violence between the ages of 6 and 11 with approximately
one in 10 children having first experience of physical violence under the age
of five.
“Girls are significantly more likely to experience
both sexual violence and physical violence than other combinations of
violence,” he added.
He further said that a third of girls experienced
their first incident of sexual violence between 14 and 15.
Onogu regretted that children are not speaking
out, seeking or receiving services; stressing violence has a serious impact on
girls’ and boys’ lives and future.
“Sexual violence is associated with higher risk
for symptoms or diagnosis of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) mental
distress and thoughts of suicide among females and with mental distress among
males,” he said.
Onogu therefore called for stiffer penalties and
measures against those found guilty as violators of children rights.
As part of its goal to secure the future of the
Nigerian child, the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) has raised its
advocacy on the implementation of the Child Right Act.
Commenting on this, UNICEF’s Child Protection
Specialist, Sharon Oladiji, lamented on the hindrances faced in the
implementation of child rights.
She said there are bottlenecks to securing rights
of the Nigerian child, Oladiji said the hindrances are multi-dimensional and
multi sectoral.
Oladiji further said: “We have to engage in
capacity building for the child right protection managers in the country.
capacity building with law enforcement agencies, institutions that are suppose
to implement the child law are all having a lot of bottle necks.
“Across board, survivors’ rights developments is
paramount. We have to programme for it and we have to make funding available
and enforce implementation generally. All these are investments we need to make
to realise rights of children,” she said.
Adopting the Convention of the Rights of a Child
(CRC) which is a legal binding International human rights treaty adopted in
November 20th 1989 by the UN Assembly states, “Life, Survival and Development;
Article 6, recognises that every child has the inherent right to life, states
parties should shall ensure to the maximum extent possible the survival and
development of the child.”